一直都唔敢將依個問題放上枱面，不過人越大，越覺得依種生活習慣唔要得。過去五、六年，每日都忍唔住打一次。無性生活，但又抵抗唔住身體嘅衝動。前排甩拖之後，個人更加摺，流連喺屋企同網絡嘅時間多咗，搞到個方面嘅機會同慾望又大多。由以前偷偷臨瞓前、黑漆漆嘅環境下打，到沖涼又打、去開洗手間又打。試過屋企無人，幾個鐘內，不停打四、五次。好似唔打就浪費咗個私人時間，因為本身無房。雖然仲係廿幾歲，暫時無乜對身體做成負擔，但係有時就算打到身體好累，心理慾望都好大。搞到四、五次之後，第六、七次好似例行公事咁，點都要打埋先瞓得安樂。其實之前都係因為自己需求太大，男朋友仔頂唔順先走。長篇大論，其實係想尋求突破困境嘅方法。感謝、感謝～

用交友app相信已經係哩個圈識人嘅主要方法？但網絡世界真係好黑暗，有人會偷你張相(淨得樣)四周去呃人，而你根本就冇嘢可以做，警又報過(都知冇乜用，但起碼可以同人講我冇做過)，又叫過app del咗個fake ac，但過一排又有，通通都冇用。哩樣已經煩咗我好耐。
之後，上年七月左右又整件受害人岀現，係咁想揾我尋仇，冇哂理性，一開始我都唔怪佢，因為佢都係畀人呃，但佢真係咬住我唔放。真係煩到想死。之後就算啦，都叫麻木咗，唔再用app，唔想再煩，但佢開始煩住我啲朋友，想套我啲資料。每日都生活喺壓力下，好似已經好耐冇開心過。
或者當日決定用app係我人生最錯嘅一件事，對哩個圈都已經完全死心，希望大家多啲留意網絡安全啦。
好想死

亚洲gay在国外，尤其欧美同志圈受欢迎程度如何？还是说因人而异？听说，欧美同志圈对亚洲人不感冒，因为亚洲人普遍身材瘦小（相比于欧美人），是这样子吗？

今日試左個靚仔有肌肉好ＦＩＴ 又按得好好，之後ＨＡＰＰＹ　ＥＮＤＩＮＧ都好好ＦＥＥＬ ，好似係新人黎既叫ＤＡＮＥＩＬ，下次去都要ＢＯＯＫ番佢！

只是想问下查一下多不多而已儿次在哪里有。

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十萬個約fun激嬲人嘅理由

我係奴,以下係今日係app搵主嘅對話:

我：想比你玩
佢：哈哈你冇主人咩
我：有但佢成日唔覆
佢：佢好正？
我：嗯嗯
佢：有幾正 (<--其實我已經嬲左)
我：黑實大隻
佢：咁佢幾歲 (忍唔住爆發)
我：其實係咁問佢嘅野做咩...你係唔係玩,唔玩就算
佢：我想知你搵主要咩條件姐,咩態度
我：係我同你玩又唔係佢同你玩,你係咁問我佢嘅野,覺得唔耐煩好正常..
佢：哦,你中意點就點


其實佢唔係第一個我遇過嘅煩膠,好多人都中意問之前同其他主點玩,爽唔爽,個主幾歲,有冇佢張相睇etc.
其實真係好好好好好好好好撚煩,玩就玩唔玩就唔玩,你問埋咁多唔關你事嘅乜Q柒撚野做乜鳩"

「灌」了再上？ 同志性愛藏危機


同志間為讓性行為更加乾淨，肛交前，扮演0號的同志會把水灌入肛門內，強行灌腸清除穢物，避免性交時出現異味，或減緩生殖器接觸穢物導致尿道炎等問題，同志間稱此為「肛交禮儀」。但醫師表示，強行灌腸會造成肛門內壁受傷，自來水的細菌也可能直攻直腸出現感染，最嚴重還可能造成敗血症死亡。 

親密時刻 最怕穢物敗興
「第一次嘗試不懂禮儀，穢物因此撒滿床，嚇傻連興致都沒了。」同志Ryan說，因為第一次的經驗之後，很怕肛交，但男友卻特別喜歡，只好在每次「性」致來之前先蹲馬桶，現在的他也不敢「憋便」，只要有便意一定會在廁所蹲完，不輕易讓腸道留下任何穢物，以因應突如其來的興致。

Ryan說，改變如廁的習慣，讓他大半時間都在廁所，好友還笑他是「馬桶王」，雖然男友告訴他不必這樣，他並不排斥肛交的味道，但是他非常不喜歡「愛愛」髒髒的，直到認識一位同性友人教他如何灌腸，才讓他的性事更幸福。

灌腸方式 習慣各有不同
Ryan說，他採取的灌腸方式是把蓮蓬頭的蓮蓬拆掉，把水管直接放在肛門中再打開水龍頭，感覺腹部脹脹的，就立刻拔掉水管，跟著用力一下，穢物就能排出，有時一次不夠，要灌二到三次才可以清乾淨，他甚至會請男友幫忙，增加彼此間的情趣。同志小傑表示，灌腸的方式百百種，他採取的方式是買市售的浣腸，肛交前直接來一球，腸道馬上就能清乾淨，也有人會使用清腸灌洗器，每一種都能達到效果。

水管灌腸 肛門直腸都受傷
馬偕醫院大腸直腸科主治醫師許希賢表示，直接把水管放到肛門裡灌腸「萬萬不可」，肛門、陰莖、陰道周邊的皮膚，相較於一般皮膚還要敏感、脆弱，一不小心就會破皮，且常把水管放入肛門中，肛門內外側的括約肌也會受傷，出現鬆弛等症狀，一旦有鬆弛現象，水的力道過強，可能直接衝到直腸，會造成直腸壁損傷。許希賢表示，同志們希望透過灌腸清理糞便，達到肛交禮儀，但糞便是很難完全清理乾淨的，食物從口中進入到腸胃道再到排出，約要24到48小時，也許在肛交的過程，腸道正在蠕動，又會有新的糞便。

清洗肛門 常用肥皂太刺激
他建議若要乾淨的肛交行為，只要平常順暢排便，在肛交前，直接用水沖洗，水不要距離肛門太近，也不要太強，清洗一下即可。也不要常用肥皂清洗肛門，因為肛門屬於弱酸性的膚質，過度刺激，肛門周邊的皮膚組織會變薄，導致肛門搔癢症，他強調，擦屁股太用力也會造成肛門搔癢症。許希賢表示，先前曾有同志患者求診，因為灌腸不慎，直腸也出現了傷口，不幸在性交過程中感染上菜花，一開始只發現肛門周邊有菜花，進行電燒後又復發，後續再做檢查，發現不僅肛門內有，連直腸內也有，治療超過三次才完全根除，曾聽過有患者因為菜花長在直腸沒有根除，引發直腸癌。

安全性行為肛交一定要戴套 兩個不嫌多
許希賢提醒，肛交一定要注意「保護措施」，不僅要戴套還希望能戴兩個以上，糞便的細菌多，若接觸到生殖器，可能會有尿道炎等狀況，糞便中還有大腸桿菌，感染時若抵抗力較差，大腸桿菌從尿道向上延伸到了腎，引發腎臟病，最嚴重恐引發敗血症。另外，他也提醒肛交一定要使用潤滑液，不只灌腸可能造成肛門受傷，太過激烈的肛交也有可能受傷，多一點準備，也是保護自己。

Hong Kong businesses say same-sex spousal visa ruling will attract fresh talent to the city
While many believe court decision is a giant step forward for equality in Hong Kong, some still have reservations

Hong Kong businesses and headhunters have welcomed a top court’s decision to grant gay couples spousal visas, with some suggesting that it is set to put the city ahead of the game in Asia, including Singapore, in the global talent hunt.

The Hong Kong Court of Final Appeal on Wednesday ruled in favour of a lesbian expatriate, known as QT, in a landmark decision, which in effect would make dependant visas normally granted to heterosexual married couples also available to same-sex couples who have taken their vows overseas.  The ruling sets the city apart from its usual competitors such as Singapore, mainland China and Japan.

While international banks and law firms in the city praised the decision for making Hong Kong a more competitive city, headhunters said it would provide those who are offered jobs in the city one less thing to worry about.Support for same-sex marriage in Hong Kong growsLife without a dependant visa felt like being a “second-class citizen”, QT said on Wednesday, who was also denied the opportunity to work and access cheaper public hospital services.Allan Zeman, former Ocean Park chairman and now a member of the government-appointed Human Resources Planning Commission, said the ruling showed Hong Kong’s inclusiveness.

“This will show the world that Hong Kong is one of the cities around the world that accepts everyone,” he said.Assistant professor Suen Yiu-tung, who specialises in gender studies, said the significance of the judgment was that it had put in place a solid system to require dependant visas to be granted to expatriates’ spouses regardless of their sexual orientation.In Singapore, Hong Kong’s major rival, sex between two men is still illegal, and it does not always issue dependant visas to same-sex spouses.He said while the visas would be granted to same-sex spouses in places such as Singapore and mainland China on a discretionary basis, the matter was not “as black and white as it is now in Hong Kong”.Alexa Chow Yee-ping, managing director of AMAC Human Resources Consultants, said it was natural for people to be concerned when they had to separate from their spouses to work abroad and that the ruling would make the decision a lot easier.

Lancy Chui, senior vice-president for Greater China at human resources firm ManpowerGroup, said although there might be other factors at play, such as the local culture, taxation and living expenses, at least visa issuance would make life easier for those affected.

But the ruling came too late for Ben Lloyd, a gay man who began working as an executive director at a bank in Hong Kong in 2011 but decided to leave in 2016 after his partner was denied a dependant visa.“We made huge sacrifices. We have a lot of friends in Hong Kong … I had a great job that I enjoyed … We were effectively leaving our whole life behind,” he said, now living in the UK.Asked if he would consider moving back following the ruling, he said: “We are very happy here in Edinburgh now, both working for companies who value our skills, among a hugely diverse and interesting people, in the beautiful city where we got married, and looking to build a family together.”

 
Tommy Chen, co-founder and spokesman for sexual minorities’ rights group Rainbow Action, said the ruling came late but that he still found it “very welcome”.Roger Wong Wai-ming, convenor of the Family School Sexual Orientation Discrimination Ordinance Concern Group, said his group disagreed with the court’s decision. He believed Hong Kong officials had no duty to recognise gay marriages registered in foreign countries.“Now [the ruling] is an indirect recognition which may bring many bad consequences, including that people might ask why we don’t just legalise same sex marriage.”Wong said he did not want to see gay marriage being systematically recognised in Hong Kong, calling it “a very controversial lifestyle”.